The Father WOUND is the most destructive force on Earth. Satan's fingerprints stain every page of history where war robbed nations of their young fathers. But as war receded over the last half-century, the goddess spirit behind radical-feminism rose in the West. Soon after, USAID and other agencies—with billions to spend—forced arrogant Western female "empowerment" and "mainstreaming" into Kenya, purposely ignoring every male over three years old. Emerging men—the boy-child—are left hopeless. Today, 70% of Kenyan fathers have been driven from their homes in shame. Women suffer and grieve too. The family is unraveling, leaving chaos in its wake.
For a boy, it is the absence of a father—no comfort, no protection, no provision, no instruction. He has no guide into adulthood, no coach to help him get there. He feels an outcast—a bastard, unwanted, even cursed. He becomes angry with God, and that anger curdles into rage. He grows to abuse the weak around him, ultimately becoming a wife-beater.
For a girl, she has no guide to the kind of man she might one day marry. No strong, safe Daddy to tell her she is beautiful. She does not feel safe at night. His wisdom and comfort are absent. Aching for the pure male touch only a father can give, she often becomes sexually active—falling pregnant to a boy who merely called her beautiful. Her rejection is projected onto God, and she learns to distrust other men. Without healing, that distrust of even good men may poison her for life.
For both son and daughter, an abusive, violent, or unstable father can be just as damaging—or more—than having none at all.
But there is good news! Since Core 300 came to Kenya in 2013 and founded Principle Based Leadership Family (a Kenyan PBO), they have conducted over 1,400 men's conferences, graduating 40,000 men from our values-based Warrior course. Over 1,300 Wives' Surveys attest to how returning husbands have been transformed.
Yet we stand alone—against the billions of kes spent over 20 years of state-sponsored, ongoing funding of no-longer-needed women and girl empowerment. "Equality" has long been eclipsed by two decades of female-only support, business startup funding, free capital, and girl-biased education. It is time to re-look at REAL outcomes and swing the pendulum—forced by Western money and manipulation—back to using Gender funds equally, for the betterment of BOTH Kenyan genders.